Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but what if the beholder and beheld are the same person? Gazing into the mirror some people fall in love with their own reflections, as did the mythological Greek youth Narcissus. Others less enamoured of their own physical appearance recoil in horror, or seek a second opinion such as "do I look fat in this?". And beyond this is the extreme of those people who are so distressed by their own physical appearance that they avoid mirrors, shop windows and reflective surfaces altogether.
Every individual has their own perception of physical beauty as well as their own opinions as to how important beauty is to them. When asked to rate our own physical appearance we often get it massively wrong. Our subjective ratings of our physical appearance can deviate enormously from how the majority of other people see us - a phenomenon attested to by a wealth of social psychological research. The overwhelming message from research looking at "self vs other" attractiveness ratings is that the relationship between subjective and objective ratings is very weak for men and extremely weak for women. As often as not, men and women who see themselves as lowly unattractive 2s are rated by others as highly attractive 8s, and many grandiose self-proclaimed 10s are in consensual reality 2s.
These self versus other attractiveness studies also tend to report that self-attractiveness ratings are related to higher levels of self esteem, even when the objective ratings of physical attractiveness are low. In short, people who think they look good tend to feel good, with the converse being equally true. When the negative misperception of physical appearance is extreme it can result in the diagnosis of a severely debilitating psychological illness known as Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD).
People experiencing BDD are extremely uncomfortable with and critical of their physical appearance despite having no obvious imperfections recognisable by others. Also known as "imagined ugliness", the disorder has a long history and has gone through several re-brandings. The Italian psychiatrist Enrico Morselli in 1886 dubbed it "dysmorphophobia", and earlier still it was termed l'obsession de la honte du corp, roughly translating as "obsessive body shame".
In today's appearance-obsessed world many people would like to improve some aspect of their physical appearance. In fact dissatisfaction with the way we look has become so widespread in certain western nations that psychologists working in this area of body image have coined the term "normative discontent", implying that it is actually the norm to be dissatisfied with one's physical appearance.
Far beyond normative discontent, the distress caused by BDD is massively disproportionate, to the extent it interferes with important areas of a person's social and occupational functioning. For example, imagining herself hideously ugly, a young woman may avoid virtually all social interaction for fear of humiliation and embarrassment. So extreme is the distress that 50 per cent of BDD sufferers will pursue cosmetic surgery in mostly futile attempts to improve their imagined defects, and tragically, some 28 per cent eventually seek solace in suicide, which is twice the suicide attempt rate of severely depressed individuals and far in excess of that expected in the general population.
Key signs and symptoms of BDD include a preoccupation with one's physical appearance, which may manifest as repetitive, almost ritualistic checking and grooming behaviours such as frequently looking in the mirror, or obsessively avoiding mirrors.
There is also a strong belief in the abnormality of one's physical appearance that leads to extreme self-consciousness and to frequent requests for reassurance about one's physical appearance from others. Often a sufferer will engage in camouflaging behaviours, going to extreme lengths to conceal the imagined defect. This can include wearing hats, baggy clothes, sunglasses, gloves and excessive make-up. Probably the most disruptive common behavioural symptom of BDD is the avoidance of activities outside of the home, including social engagements and educational or occupational responsibilities.
To understand which body parts are most commonly the source of distress Dr Katharine Phillips, an internationally renowned expert on BDD, examined the cases of 500 BDD patients. She found that the most common source of distress was skin - 73 per cent of patients were distressed by their perception of freckles, acne and other dermatological blemishes. Hair was the second most common source of distress with at least 56 per cent reporting some hair-related appearance anxiety, and number three was the nose, with 37 per cent expressing distress over its size or shape.
It is interesting to note that weight, a common source of distress in the general population, was not among the top three. However it did make the overall list, with about 22 per cent of patients citing weight gain and the stomach as a source of distress. It is important to note that people experiencing BDD commonly have more than one perceived defect and the perceived defect or defects can alter over time.
Epidemiological research suggests that between six and 15 per cent of patients seeking elective cosmetic surgery or aesthetic dermatologic treatments are experiencing BDD. There are also numerous reports of desperate BDD sufferers attempting "do it yourself" cosmetic surgery with horrific results - imagine trying to lighten your skin with sandpaper or to tighten loose skin with a staple gun. Despite the high rate of BDD sufferers seeking elective cosmetic treatments, the evidence suggests that such interventions offer very little hope of relieving appearance anxiety, and in many cases they actually make the situation worse. With the correction of one supposed defect, BDD patients are quick to become preoccupied with another imagined or exaggerated blemish.
Many specialists in BDD advocate that those offering cosmetic surgery and other related elective treatments should screen their patients for BDD to avoid unnecessary and generally unsatisfying surgical outcomes. Such screening tools do exist and are both highly sensitive and specific in their ability to identify individuals experiencing BDD. Treatment options for BDD include psychotherapy and medication, both of which are much more effective clinically and cost-wise than going under the knife. Given the current global surge in the popularity of elective cosmetic interventions, screening for BDD is now more important than ever.
Justin Thomas is a psychologist working within the Department of Natural Science and Public Health at Zayed University in Abu Dhabi.
Hafsah al Habsi is a student who recently completed the Psychology of Everyday Life Course at Zayed University in Abu Dhabi.
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Alyssa Ayres, Oxford University Press
RedCrow Intelligence Company Profile
Started: 2016
Founders: Hussein Nasser Eddin, Laila Akel, Tayeb Akel
Based: Ramallah, Palestine
Sector: Technology, Security
# of staff: 13
Investment: $745,000
Investors: Palestine’s Ibtikar Fund, Abu Dhabi’s Gothams and angel investors
Keane on …
Liverpool’s Uefa Champions League bid: “They’re great. With the attacking force they have, for me, they’re certainly one of the favourites. You look at the teams left in it - they’re capable of scoring against anybody at any given time. Defensively they’ve been good, so I don’t see any reason why they couldn’t go on and win it.”
Mohamed Salah’s debut campaign at Anfield: “Unbelievable. He’s been phenomenal. You can name the front three, but for him on a personal level, he’s been unreal. He’s been great to watch and hopefully he can continue now until the end of the season - which I’m sure he will, because he’s been in fine form. He’s been incredible this season.”
Zlatan Ibrahimovic’s instant impact at former club LA Galaxy: “Brilliant. It’s been a great start for him and for the club. They were crying out for another big name there. They were lacking that, for the prestige of LA Galaxy. And now they have one of the finest stars. I hope they can go win something this year.”
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West Asia Premiership
Dubai Hurricanes 58-10 Dubai Knights Eagles
Dubai Tigers 5-39 Bahrain
Jebel Ali Dragons 16-56 Abu Dhabi Harlequins
Results
2pm: Maiden (TB) Dh60,000 (Dirt) 1,200m, Winner: Mouheeb, Tom Marquand (jockey), Nicholas Bachalard (trainer)
2.30pm: Handicap (TB) Dh68,000 (D) 1,200m, Winner: Honourable Justice, Royston Ffrench, Salem bin Ghadayer
3pm: Handicap (TB) Dh84,000 (D) 1,200m, Winner: Dahawi, Antonio Fresu, Musabah Al Muhairi
3.30pm: Conditions (TB) Dh100,000 (D) 1,200m, Winner: Dark Silver, Fernando Jara, Ahmad bin Harmash
4pm: Maiden (TB) Dh60,000 (D) 1,600m, Winner: Dark Of Night. Antonio Fresu, Al Muhairi.
4.30pm: Handicap (TB) Dh68,000 (D) 1,600m, Winner: Habah, Pat Dobbs, Doug Watson
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COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Kumulus Water
Started: 2021
Founders: Iheb Triki and Mohamed Ali Abid
Based: Tunisia
Sector: Water technology
Number of staff: 22
Investment raised: $4 million
MATCH INFO
Hoffenheim v Liverpool
Uefa Champions League play-off, first leg
Location: Rhein-Neckar-Arena, Sinsheim
Kick-off: Tuesday, 10.45pm (UAE)
What is tokenisation?
Tokenisation refers to the issuance of a blockchain token, which represents a virtually tradable real, tangible asset. A tokenised asset is easily transferable, offers good liquidity, returns and is easily traded on the secondary markets.
The specs
Engine 60kwh FWD
Battery Rimac 120kwh Lithium Nickel Manganese Cobalt Oxide (LiNiMnCoO2) chemistry
Power 204hp Torque 360Nm
Price, base / as tested Dh174,500
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Company/date started: 2015
Founder/CEO: Mohammed Toraif
Based: Manama, Bahrain
Sector: Sales, Technology, Conservation
Size: (employees/revenue) 4/ 5,000 downloads
Stage: 1 ($100,000)
Investors: Two first-round investors including, 500 Startups, Fawaz Al Gosaibi Holding (Saudi Arabia)
The schedule
December 5 - 23: Shooting competition, Al Dhafra Shooting Club
December 9 - 24: Handicrafts competition, from 4pm until 10pm, Heritage Souq
December 11 - 20: Dates competition, from 4pm
December 12 - 20: Sour milk competition
December 13: Falcon beauty competition
December 14 and 20: Saluki races
December 15: Arabian horse races, from 4pm
December 16 - 19: Falconry competition
December 18: Camel milk competition, from 7.30 - 9.30 am
December 20 and 21: Sheep beauty competition, from 10am
December 22: The best herd of 30 camels
Profile Idealz
Company: Idealz
Founded: January 2018
Based: Dubai
Sector: E-commerce
Size: (employees): 22
Investors: Co-founders and Venture Partners (9 per cent)
The biog:
From: Wimbledon, London, UK
Education: Medical doctor
Hobbies: Travelling, meeting new people and cultures
Favourite animals: All of them
We Weren’t Supposed to Survive But We Did
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We weren’t supposed to remember but we did.
We weren’t supposed to write but we did.
We weren’t supposed to fight but we did.
We weren’t supposed to organise but we did.
We weren’t supposed to rap but we did.
We weren’t supposed to find allies but we did.
We weren’t supposed to grow communities but we did.
We weren’t supposed to return but WE ARE.
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INDIA SQUAD
Virat Kohli (capt), Rohit Sharma, Shikhar Dhawan, KL Rahul, Vijay Shankar, MS Dhoni (wk), Kedar Jadhav, Dinesh Karthik, Yuzvendra Chahal, Kuldeep Yadav, Bhuvneshwar Kumar, Jasprit Bumrah, Hardik Pandya, Ravindra Jadeja, Mohammed Shami
Formula Middle East Calendar (Formula Regional and Formula 4)
Round 1: January 17-19, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 2: January 22-23, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 3: February 7-9, Dubai Autodrome – Dubai
Round 4: February 14-16, Yas Marina Circuit – Abu Dhabi
Round 5: February 25-27, Jeddah Corniche Circuit – Saudi Arabia
Scores:
Day 4
England 290 & 346
Sri Lanka 336 & 226-7 (target 301)
Sri Lanka require another 75 runs with three wickets remaining
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In the Restaurant: Society in Four Courses
Christoph Ribbat
Translated by Jamie Searle Romanelli
Pushkin Press
Brief scores:
Day 1
Toss: India, chose to bat
India (1st innings): 215-2 (89 ov)
Agarwal 76, Pujara 68 not out; Cummins 2-40
MATCH INFO
Sheffield United 3
Fleck 19, Mousset 52, McBurnie 90
Manchester United 3
Williams 72, Greenwood 77, Rashford 79
England's lowest Test innings
- 45 v Australia in Sydney, January 28, 1887
- 46 v West Indies in Port of Spain, March 25, 1994
- 51 v West Indies in Kingston, February 4, 2009
- 52 v Australia at The Oval, August 14, 1948
- 53 v Australia at Lord's, July 16, 1888
- 58 v New Zealand in Auckland, March 22, 2018
The biog
Occupation: Key marker and auto electrician
Hometown: Ghazala, Syria
Date of arrival in Abu Dhabi: May 15, 1978
Family: 11 siblings, a wife, three sons and one daughter
Favourite place in UAE: Abu Dhabi
Favourite hobby: I like to do a mix of things, like listening to poetry for example.
Favourite Syrian artist: Sabah Fakhri, a tenor from Aleppo
Favourite food: fresh fish
Europe’s rearming plan
- Suspend strict budget rules to allow member countries to step up defence spending
- Create new "instrument" providing €150 billion of loans to member countries for defence investment
- Use the existing EU budget to direct more funds towards defence-related investment
- Engage the bloc's European Investment Bank to drop limits on lending to defence firms
- Create a savings and investments union to help companies access capital
Huddersfield Town permanent signings:
- Steve Mounie (striker): signed from Montpellier for £11 million
- Tom Ince (winger): signed from Derby County for £7.7m
- Aaron Mooy (midfielder): signed from Manchester City for £7.7m
- Laurent Depoitre (striker): signed from Porto for £3.4m
- Scott Malone (defender): signed from Fulham for £3.3m
- Zanka (defender): signed from Copenhagen for £2.3m
- Elias Kachunga (winger): signed for Ingolstadt for £1.1m
- Danny WIlliams (midfielder): signed from Reading on a free transfer
The alternatives
• Founded in 2014, Telr is a payment aggregator and gateway with an office in Silicon Oasis. It’s e-commerce entry plan costs Dh349 monthly (plus VAT). QR codes direct customers to an online payment page and merchants can generate payments through messaging apps.
• Business Bay’s Pallapay claims 40,000-plus active merchants who can invoice customers and receive payment by card. Fees range from 1.99 per cent plus Dh1 per transaction depending on payment method and location, such as online or via UAE mobile.
• Tap started in May 2013 in Kuwait, allowing Middle East businesses to bill, accept, receive and make payments online “easier, faster and smoother” via goSell and goCollect. It supports more than 10,000 merchants. Monthly fees range from US$65-100, plus card charges of 2.75-3.75 per cent and Dh1.2 per sale.
• 2checkout’s “all-in-one payment gateway and merchant account” accepts payments in 200-plus markets for 2.4-3.9 per cent, plus a Dh1.2-Dh1.8 currency conversion charge. The US provider processes online shop and mobile transactions and has 17,000-plus active digital commerce users.
• PayPal is probably the best-known online goods payment method - usually used for eBay purchases - but can be used to receive funds, providing everyone’s signed up. Costs from 2.9 per cent plus Dh1.2 per transaction.
Our family matters legal consultant
Name: Dr Hassan Mohsen Elhais
Position: legal consultant with Al Rowaad Advocates and Legal Consultants.
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RESULTS
5pm: Maiden | Dh80,000 | 1,600m
Winner: AF Al Moreeb, Tadhg O’Shea (jockey), Ernst Oertel (trainer)
5.30pm: Handicap | Dh80,000 | 1,600m
Winner: AF Makerah, Adrie de Vries, Ernst Oertel
6pm: Handicap | Dh80,000 | 2,200m
Winner: Hazeme, Richard Mullen, Jean de Roualle
6.30pm: Handicap | Dh85,000 | 2,200m
Winner: AF Yatroq, Brett Doyle, Ernst Oertel
7pm: Shadwell Farm for Private Owners Handicap | Dh70,000 | 2,200m
Winner: Nawwaf KB, Patrick Cosgrave, Helal Al Alawi
7.30pm: Handicap (TB) | Dh100,000 | 1,600m
Winner: Treasured Times, Bernardo Pinheiro, Rashed Bouresly
The biog
Date of birth: 27 May, 1995
Place of birth: Dubai, UAE
Status: Single
School: Al Ittihad private school in Al Mamzar
University: University of Sharjah
Degree: Renewable and Sustainable Energy
Hobby: I enjoy travelling a lot, not just for fun, but I like to cross things off my bucket list and the map and do something there like a 'green project'.
THE SPECS
Engine: 3.6-litre V6
Transmission: nine-speed automatic
Power: 310hp
Torque: 366Nm
Price: Dh200,000
The biog:
Favourite book: The Leader Who Had No Title by Robin Sharma
Pet Peeve: Racism
Proudest moment: Graduating from Sorbonne
What puts her off: Dishonesty in all its forms
Happiest period in her life: The beginning of her 30s
Favourite movie: "I have two. The Pursuit of Happiness and Homeless to Harvard"
Role model: Everyone. A child can be my role model
Slogan: The queen of peace, love and positive energy