Nimesh Joshi and his wife Aditi Joshi are currently in the United States for Nimesh’s treatment. Courtesy of the Joshi family
Nimesh Joshi and his wife Aditi Joshi are currently in the United States for Nimesh’s treatment. Courtesy of the Joshi family

No stone unturned in marrow donor hunt for Dubai-born Indian



Nimesh Joshi knows the six-week race to find a bone-marrow donor to help treat his rare blood cancer is "truly a daunting task".

But the Indian, born and raised in Dubai, also knows he is backed by family and friends who have been pulling out all the stops to find a match in different countries.

"Some have put their work lives on hold and are working full-time on finding me a match," said Nimesh, 38, an entrepreneur.

Among them is his brother Chinmay, 33, who is still getting over the fact that he could not provide a match for his sibling.

"I cried my heart out when I was not a possible match for my brother," Chinmay said. "I'm done feeling sorry for him. My brother and best friend wants to live. I will make it happen."

Chinmay and Nimesh's wife, Aditi, are in Los Angeles with him as he is treated for Hepatosplenic T-cell lymphoma, with which he was diagnosed in January.

The couple's son, 7, is in Dubai with relatives.

One friend has returned from organising a donor drive in Singapore and is urging South Asians to attend Dubai drives this weekend.

Vic Bageria, an Indian businessman in Dubai, has put his work on hold to help his good friend, who he has known for about 20 years.

"This is absolutely my 24/7 job - finding him a match, getting him back to Dubai and getting him back to the normal, healthy him," said Vic, 36. "He is my best friend. I would go to any length for him."

Nimesh says he is overwhelmed by the response.

"I'm starting my second round of chemo and will need stem cells here for transplant within six weeks," he said.

"Meanwhile, family and friends have been enthusiastically spreading the word through phone calls, Facebook pages, digging up untapped resources and arranging 'donor team' meetings.

"Others take my son to playtime so that he doesn't miss his parents as much. These efforts seem to have created an unprecedented response.

"I'm truly overwhelmed by the support that acquaintances and corporates have offered us."

Nimesh said his nationality made it difficult to find a suitable donor.

"Finding a match is tricky, depending on the ethnic background," he said. "The Japanese, for example, owing to their island-based genetic pool, have a 90 per cent chance of finding their match from one of the well-organised Japanese registries.

"Indians, on the other hand, based on a high geographical dispersion, have a very hard time finding a donor."

His wife remains optimistic.

"I'm waiting for Nimesh to get well and to return to the family once again," Aditi said. "I want us to make up for the time we've lost with our son and look forward to the three of us being together once again.

"Surely, this period is a phase, a diversion, and we hope to move forward soon. We're very hopeful for a marrow match."

Healthy people aged between 18 and 50 are being asked to provide a cheek swab and join the bone-marrow registry at several events in Dubai this weekend, where they will be told what is required of a donor.

The first of the events, being held in association with Datri Blood Stem Cell Donors Registry, a not-for-profit Indian-based organisation, will be today at Al Ahmadiah Office in Satwa from 10am to 2pm.

It will move to the management office of the Oasis Centre on Sheikh Zayed Road from 2pm to 10pm.

People can also go to the iCare Clinics in Oasis Centre Mall from 2pm to 10pm today, and from 8am to 10pm on Sunday and Monday.

Tomorrow, a drive will be held at Sindhi Ceremonial Hall in Bur Dubai, from 10am to 2pm, and at the India Club on Oud Metha Road from 4pm to 8pm.

Events will also be held on Sunday and Monday at the iCare clinic in Discovery Gardens, Zen Cluster, from 8am to 10pm.

For more information email vic.bageria@sdsdxb.com.

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Sheikh Zayed's poem

When it is unveiled at Abu Dhabi Art, the Standing Tall exhibition will appear as an interplay of poetry and art. The 100 scarves are 100 fragments surrounding five, figurative, female sculptures, and both sculptures and scarves are hand-embroidered by a group of refugee women artisans, who used the Palestinian cross-stitch embroidery art of tatreez. Fragments of Sheikh Zayed’s poem Your Love is Ruling My Heart, written in Arabic as a love poem to his nation, are embroidered onto both the sculptures and the scarves. Here is the English translation.

Your love is ruling over my heart

Your love is ruling over my heart, even a mountain can’t bear all of it

Woe for my heart of such a love, if it befell it and made it its home

You came on me like a gleaming sun, you are the cure for my soul of its sickness

Be lenient on me, oh tender one, and have mercy on who because of you is in ruins

You are like the Ajeed Al-reem [leader of the gazelle herd] for my country, the source of all of its knowledge

You waddle even when you stand still, with feet white like the blooming of the dates of the palm

Oh, who wishes to deprive me of sleep, the night has ended and I still have not seen you

You are the cure for my sickness and my support, you dried my throat up let me go and damp it

Help me, oh children of mine, for in his love my life will pass me by. 

Banned items
Dubai Police has also issued a list of banned items at the ground on Sunday. These include:
  • Drones
  • Animals
  • Fireworks/ flares
  • Radios or power banks
  • Laser pointers
  • Glass
  • Selfie sticks/ umbrellas
  • Sharp objects
  • Political flags or banners
  • Bikes, skateboards or scooters
UPI facts

More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions

Top New Zealand cop on policing the virtual world

New Zealand police began closer scrutiny of social media and online communities after the attacks on two mosques in March, the country's top officer said.

The killing of 51 people in Christchurch and wounding of more than 40 others shocked the world. Brenton Tarrant, a suspected white supremacist, was accused of the killings. His trial is ongoing and he denies the charges.

Mike Bush, commissioner of New Zealand Police, said officers looked closely at how they monitored social media in the wake of the tragedy to see if lessons could be learned.

“We decided that it was fit for purpose but we need to deepen it in terms of community relationships, extending them not only with the traditional community but the virtual one as well," he told The National.

"We want to get ahead of attacks like we suffered in New Zealand so we have to challenge ourselves to be better."

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