However important women become in the workplace, and no matter how many stereotypes they have shattered to get there, they are still sexualised.
How often does an attractive woman in a position of power become the focus of the media, precisely because she is pretty?
There is nothing wrong with noting both beauty and brains, as that breaks the “blonde bimbo” stereotype, which I loathe. But there is no need to always tie looks and intelligence together, even if plenty of studies show that attractive people do have it easier in life.
But I want to focus on something raised this week by a female doctor. Many men will, I suspect, avoid reading the rest of this column just because it touches upon an issue they often make fun of.
At the Arab Women in Leadership and Business Summit in Dubai, Dr Maryam Matar made a speech in which she noted that the decisions she had made that she had regretted were those “directly related to my oestrogen”.
“Before I used to take my period for granted. I don’t care when it’s my first day, when I’m ovulating, when oestrogen is up, when the progesterone is down. Imagine, my dear, the biggest influence you will get as a woman is when your oestrogen is high,” she said, according to a published transcript.
She said that sometimes there are hormones in the body over which you have no control. Sometimes you will make a decision which is not right and you will be angry.
Her statements angered many people who said it was offensive to suggest that women can’t make decent decisions when menstruating.
Nothing irks most women more than when a male colleague dismisses an argument with the words: “Oh, is it that time of month?”
It has become commonplace for some men to make jokes about women and their “moods” during premenstrual syndrome, popularly known as PMS. No chocolates or Nutella jars are safe at that time of month.
Men have a field day with this, but they are not the ones dealing with this pain every month. Hormonal changes are nothing to scoff at.
What happens inside our bodies affects us in every way, from health and mood to relationships. It is not enough that women have to carry babies, they have to deal with some big adult size brats as well.
Men have mood swings and bad days too, but what is their excuse? At least there is a very obvious reason for the women.
But then again there have been studies that prove that even men go through different hormonal cycles that impact their behaviour. Some have called it “irritable male syndrome”, which is triggered by hormonal imbalance and stress.
In short, we all have bad days, and we just have to be kinder to and more understanding of one another.
In defence of what Dr Matar said, she included an important point that I have come across previously. She mentioned a Dubai Court study that noticed most divorces are triggered during the menstruation time.
Several lawyers have told me that they quietly make notes to themselves to ask a woman who institutes divorce proceedings whether she did so at that “time of the month”. So whatever we think of it, PMS does impact lives in more than one way.
Dr Matar went on to mention religion.
“If the divorce happens during the menstruation time”, she said, “it would not be considered as an official divorce,” urging women to avoid taking decisions two days before the first day of their periods, or during the first and second days of menstruation. She also recommend not inviting one’s mother-in-law over on the first day of your period.
While this column may have been too “hormonal” for some, it is important to note that we need to be more aware of our bodies and its changes, and how our diets and lifestyle play into it as, honestly, a bad day can easily lead us to make bad decisions.
rghazal@thenational.ae
On Twitter: @Arabianmau
COMPANY PROFILE
Initial investment: Undisclosed
Investment stage: Series A
Investors: Core42
Current number of staff: 47
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FIXTURES
Monday, January 28
Iran v Japan, Hazza bin Zayed Stadium (6pm)
Tuesday, January 29
UAEv Qatar, Mohamed Bin Zayed Stadium (6pm)
Friday, February 1
Final, Zayed Sports City Stadium (6pm)
What you as a drone operator need to know
A permit and licence is required to fly a drone legally in Dubai.
Sanad Academy is the United Arab Emirate’s first RPA (Remotely Piloted Aircraft) training and certification specialists endorsed by the Dubai Civil Aviation authority.
It is responsible to train, test and certify drone operators and drones in UAE with DCAA Endorsement.
“We are teaching people how to fly in accordance with the laws of the UAE,” said Ahmad Al Hamadi, a trainer at Sanad.
“We can show how the aircraft work and how they are operated. They are relatively easy to use, but they need responsible pilots.
“Pilots have to be mature. They are given a map of where they can and can’t fly in the UAE and we make these points clear in the lectures we give.
“You cannot fly a drone without registration under any circumstances.”
Larger drones are harder to fly, and have a different response to location control. There are no brakes in the air, so the larger drones have more power.
The Sanad Academy has a designated area to fly off the Al Ain Road near Skydive Dubai to show pilots how to fly responsibly.
“As UAS technology becomes mainstream, it is important to build wider awareness on how to integrate it into commerce and our personal lives,” said Major General Abdulla Khalifa Al Marri, Commander-in-Chief, Dubai Police.
“Operators must undergo proper training and certification to ensure safety and compliance.
“Dubai’s airspace will undoubtedly experience increased traffic as UAS innovations become commonplace, the Forum allows commercial users to learn of best practice applications to implement UAS safely and legally, while benefitting a whole range of industries.”
The specs
Engine: 1.5-litre turbo
Power: 181hp
Torque: 230Nm
Transmission: 6-speed automatic
Starting price: Dh79,000
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ADCC AFC Women’s Champions League Group A fixtures
October 3: v Wuhan Jiangda Women’s FC
October 6: v Hyundai Steel Red Angels Women’s FC
October 9: v Sabah FA
Results
2.30pm: Handicap (PA) Dh40,000 1,700m; Winner: AF Mezmar, Adam McLean (jockey), Ernst Oertel (trainer).
3pm: Maiden (PA) Dh40,000 2,000m; Winner: AF Ajwad, Tadhg O’Shea, Ernst Oertel.
3.30pm: Handicap (PA) Dh40,000 1,200m; Winner: Gold Silver, Sam Hitchcott, Ibrahim Aseel.
4pm: Maiden (PA) Dh40,000 1,000m; Winner: Atrash, Richard Mullen, Ana Mendez.
4.30pm: Gulf Cup Prestige (PA) Dh150,000 1,700m; Winner: AF Momtaz, Saif Al Balushi, Musabah Al Muhairi.
5pm: Handicap (TB) Dh40,000 1,200m; Winner: Al Mushtashar, Richard Mullen, Satish Seemar.
Fund-raising tips for start-ups
Develop an innovative business concept
Have the ability to differentiate yourself from competitors
Put in place a business continuity plan after Covid-19
Prepare for the worst-case scenario (further lockdowns, long wait for a vaccine, etc.)
Have enough cash to stay afloat for the next 12 to 18 months
Be creative and innovative to reduce expenses
Be prepared to use Covid-19 as an opportunity for your business
* Tips from Jassim Al Marzooqi and Walid Hanna
TRAP
Starring: Josh Hartnett, Saleka Shyamalan, Ariel Donaghue
Director: M Night Shyamalan
Rating: 3/5
Can NRIs vote in the election?
Indians residing overseas cannot cast their ballot abroad
Non-resident Indians or NRIs can vote only by going to a polling booth in their home constituency
There are about 3.1 million NRIs living overseas
Indians have urged political parties to extend the right to vote to citizens residing overseas
A committee of the Election Commission of India approved of proxy voting for non-resident Indians
Proxy voting means that a person can authorise someone residing in the same polling booth area to cast a vote on his behalf.
This option is currently available for the armed forces, police and government officials posted outside India
A bill was passed in the lower house of India’s parliament or the Lok Sabha to extend proxy voting to non-resident Indians
However, this did not come before the upper house or Rajya Sabha and has lapsed
The issue of NRI voting draws a huge amount of interest in India and overseas
Over the past few months, Indians have received messages on mobile phones and on social media claiming that NRIs can cast their votes online
The Election Commission of India then clarified that NRIs could not vote online
The Election Commission lodged a complaint with the Delhi Police asking it to clamp down on the people spreading misinformation
Difference between fractional ownership and timeshare
Although similar in its appearance, the concept of a fractional title deed is unlike that of a timeshare, which usually involves multiple investors buying “time” in a property whereby the owner has the right to occupation for a specified period of time in any year, as opposed to the actual real estate, said John Peacock, Head of Indirect Tax and Conveyancing, BSA Ahmad Bin Hezeem & Associates, a law firm.
UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
MATCH INFO
Fixture: Thailand v UAE, Tuesday, 4pm (UAE)
TV: Abu Dhabi Sports
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MAIN CARD
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Super heavyweight 94 kg
Adnan Mohammad v Mohammed Ajaraam
Lightweight 60kg
Zakaria Eljamari v Faridoon Alik Zai
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Mahmood Amin v Taha Marrouni
Light welterweight 64.5kg
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Light heavyweight 81.4kg
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