In 1982, a British Airways plane flew through a cloud of volcanic ash over Indonesia and lost power to its engines. The British pilot, Eric Moody, calmly informed the passengers: “Good evening again ladies and gentlemen, this is the captain here. We have a small problem in that all four engines have failed. We’re doing our utmost to get them going and I trust you’re not in too much distress and would the chief steward please come to the flight deck.”
Fortunately, the plane was able to glide far enough and make a safe landing at a nearby airport. Mr Moody’s announcement has since been widely hailed as a classic example of British understatement, demonstrating one of the ways the British commonly give negative feedback. More direct cultures use what linguists call “upgraders”, words preceding or following negative feedback that makes it feel stronger, such as “absolutely” or “totally”.
By contrast, more indirect cultures, such as the British, use more “downgraders”, words that soften the criticism, such as “kind of”, “sort of” and “a little bit”. But this can create confusion with people from other cultures. Marcus Klopfer, a German finance director, learnt the hard way. A soft-spoken manager in his forties, he described how his failure to decode a message from his British boss almost cost him his job.
“In Germany, we typically use strong words when giving negative feedback or criticising to make sure the message registers clearly. During a one-on-one, my British boss ‘suggested that I think about’ doing something differently. So I took his suggestion. I thought about it and decided not to do it. Little did I know that his phrase was supposed to be interpreted as, ‘change your behaviour right away or else’. And I can tell you, I was pretty surprised when he called me into his office to chew me out for insubordination.”
Mr Klopfer subsequently analysed messages by ignoring the downgraders and focusing on the raw message in the middle. “I [now] start by sprinkling the ground with a few light positive comments and words of appreciation. Then I ease into the feedback with ‘a few small suggestions’,” he said.
Should Mr Klopfer’s boss have adapted his style to be more direct to ensure his German team member received the message clearly? There is one rule for working with cultures that are more direct than yours: don’t do it like them.
Kwang Young-Su, a Korean manager who had been working in the Netherlands for six years, made this mistake. “The Dutch culture is very direct, and we Koreans do not like to give direct negative feedback,” he explained. “I was shocked at how rude and arrogant the Dutch are with their criticism. When they don’t like something, they tell you bluntly to your face. I spoke to another Korean friend who has been in the Netherlands for a while, and he told me the only way to handle this is to give it right back to them. Now I try to be just as blunt with them as they are with me.” Mr Young-Su’s Dutch colleagues later complained that they found him so aggressive they were practically unable to work with him.
Although Americans are stereotyped for their directness, if you give negative feedback by launching into the criticism first, you may find your American counterpart is anything but receptive. You’ll have better luck if you explicitly state something that you appreciate about the person or the situation before moving on to what you’d like that person to do differently.
Over time, balance the positive and negative feedback you give. If you notice something positive your colleague has done, say it there and then. Then, if you criticise them later, your comments are more likely to be considered rather than rejected out of hand.
Reactions and preferred styles differ dramatically from one society to another. The Thai manager has been taught never to criticise a colleague openly or in front of others, while the Dutch manager has learnt to give the message straight. Americans are trained to wrap positive messages around negative ones, while the French are used to criticising passionately and providing positive feedback sparingly.
With focus and practice, you can learn to adapt your style to numerous world cultures and get the results you are hoping for.
Erin Meyer is a professor of organisational behaviour at Insead and the author of The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business.
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Milestones on the road to union
1970
October 26: Bahrain withdraws from a proposal to create a federation of nine with the seven Trucial States and Qatar.
December: Ahmed Al Suwaidi visits New York to discuss potential UN membership.
1971
March 1: Alex Douglas Hume, Conservative foreign secretary confirms that Britain will leave the Gulf and “strongly supports” the creation of a Union of Arab Emirates.
July 12: Historic meeting at which Sheikh Zayed and Sheikh Rashid make a binding agreement to create what will become the UAE.
July 18: It is announced that the UAE will be formed from six emirates, with a proposed constitution signed. RAK is not yet part of the agreement.
August 6: The fifth anniversary of Sheikh Zayed becoming Ruler of Abu Dhabi, with official celebrations deferred until later in the year.
August 15: Bahrain becomes independent.
September 3: Qatar becomes independent.
November 23-25: Meeting with Sheikh Zayed and Sheikh Rashid and senior British officials to fix December 2 as date of creation of the UAE.
November 29: At 5.30pm Iranian forces seize the Greater and Lesser Tunbs by force.
November 30: Despite a power sharing agreement, Tehran takes full control of Abu Musa.
November 31: UK officials visit all six participating Emirates to formally end the Trucial States treaties
December 2: 11am, Dubai. New Supreme Council formally elects Sheikh Zayed as President. Treaty of Friendship signed with the UK. 11.30am. Flag raising ceremony at Union House and Al Manhal Palace in Abu Dhabi witnessed by Sheikh Khalifa, then Crown Prince of Abu Dhabi.
December 6: Arab League formally admits the UAE. The first British Ambassador presents his credentials to Sheikh Zayed.
December 9: UAE joins the United Nations.